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Ja,det var det jeg siterte.

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Tenkte jeg skulle skrive om Sigbjørn sin ene sydentur.Til Mallorca sommeren 05 med fosterforeldrene og et vennepar av dem.

Husker godt Sigbjørn kom hjem og fortalte han hadde funnet syden billetter på kjøkkenet,men det var ikke bestillt noe til ham,og det synes han var urettferdig.Han kontaltet saksbehandler som sa,selvsagt må du også få bli med,og så fikk han det.

Ferien var jo grei nok den,men Sigbjørn hadde det vondt i hjertet sitt.Han fortalte at de hadde vært ute og spist en kveld,og da hadde de tilsynelatende hatt det koselig.ALLE koste seg rundt bordet og var i godt humør.Sigbjørn gikk på toalettet og der begynnte han å stor gråte.En tysker som og var der spurte hva gråter du for.Han fortalte han gråt for han savnet familien sin.DET VAR DERE JEG SKULLE VERT DER MED SA,HAN TIL OSS,OG HAN HADDE FÅTT DET SÅNN OVER SEG DA DE SATT DER RUNDT BORDET.

Det er et godt eksempel på galskapen vi har vert utsatt for.Nå skal vi på ferie til sommeren med våre 3 gutter,men det blir vondt å mangle en når vi koser oss rundt bordet.
Tenk ikke et ord har vi hørt fra noen ang.Sigbjørns død i barnevernets omsorg.De har ikke bekalget det engang ovenfor oss.

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Det er så utrolig sårende å se på tv når barnevernet reklamerer for fosterhjems plassering.Det høres ut som de må være tatt fra noen monster foreldre men slik er det jo ikke i virkeligheten.Eller at foreldrene ikke har noe å tilby dem overhodet.

Da ungene var små sang vi godnatt sanger for dem daglig.Det var de samme sangene om og om igjenn.byssan lull var en stor favoritt.Da hun minste kom i fosterhjem skulle fostermor synge den sangen ,men hun kunne ikke hele så vår minste datter måtte synge siste værset selv.

Så kunne ikke synge tippe høne sangen heller så hun måtte synge den selv ,fortalte søsteren.
Da vi var i fylkesnemda og de skulle ta fra oss de 5 minste barna.Så trodde ikke mannen min og jeg at de klarte det.De hadde jo ikke noe grunn til å ta dem.Vi visste jo selv vi ikke hadde gjort noe gale i forhold til dem.
Det vi opplevde var at barnevernet brukte , det at en eldre søster,som var i krise selv noen år tidligere. Det var det de bygget hele raidet mot fam. kvelland på,og tenk at de kunne ta en lærer,og ikke en fordrukken slusk ,eller en narkoman.Det var jo stor prestisje bare det.
Saksbehandler innrømmet at de bygget hele barneverns saken sin på det.

Vi opplevde i nemda at de brukte nesten 2 timer på å diskutere en vaffel episode.Det var hvorvidt det var barne mishandling at jeg gav dem vafler søndag kl. 16 første nyttårs dag ,og ikke middag.Men det fikk de kl.19.00 oppvarmet stek fra nyttårs aften,men da var tilsyns damen gått hjem.De hadde ikke noe mere dramatisk på oss,og ungene de ble tatt de,og måtte flytte innen et par uker.
Vi satt på badestranden med dem alle 5 de lekte i sanden ,fanget krabber ,og var trygg i sitt hjem helt til siste dag.Mannen min og jeg var sønderknust,og det tok sånn på ,at vi måtte levere dem 14 dageretter tapet i nemda.Vi klarte ikke ha dem i de 6 ukene vi kunne etterpå,vi fikk jo ikke sove om nettene,bare gud vet hvor grusomt vi hadde det da.
Det var jo ingen mening i det som skjedde det var totalt meningsløst,og det fikk særlig Sigbjørn erfare for han var ekstra følsom i sitt hjerte.

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Vi hadde en såkalt profesjonell inne i 2 perioder på et år.Hun gav ossgode råd og veiledning i kommunikasjon,grensesetting og samspill med guttene.Det var lære rikt for hun lærte oss å gjøre ting på en lettere måte.Vi hadde god nytte av henne,men kopperud sa henne opp tilslutt.Hun hadde skrevet en veldig flott rapport om oss,men det tok ikke fylkesnemda hensyn til.Hun skrev mannen min og jeg var gode til å lære og lette å samarbeide med.Hun sa jeg hadde 5 flotte unger ,og hun fant ikke noe rart om dem.De var viltre,sunne og friske,og klart det var høyt støy nivå hjemme hos oss.

Det var forferdelig trist å lese om det kniv drapet på institusjonen i dag.Det er noe jeg bare har ventet på skulle skje.Det var det vi var redd kunne skje med Sigbjørn.Han hadde ikke bodd på institusjon mere enn en uke før han ble fra stjålet lommeboken med 500 kroner i .Det ble slåssing og spetakkel ut av det. Vi gikk rundt i angst på slutten for at det skulle skje noe,og så endte det med at han ikke orket mere,og tok sitt eget liv.

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